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Wednesday, March 26, 2008

5 Powerful Practices That Lead To What You Want

Hello Friends,

Hope all is well. The following article gives us some excellent tips to help apply the principles of Law Of Attraction(LOA). Focus on what you want rather than what you don't want. It's just that simple and at the same time just that hard. Using LOA takes time and practice. It literally becomes a complete life changing way of being. Once we understand that all we have need for is already provided for us we we will understand that we have no needs. It's all available to us.

Don't resist what the Universe has for you. I often tell my self, "The Universe wants you to succeed. Don't get in the way Dex." I try to remind myself constantly to just "go with the flow." I'm done resisting.

Enjoy this short but powerful article. The 5 tips will help you to achieve what it is you are wanting for your life. Many blessings and thanks for listening.

Five Sure Fire Law Of Attraction Practices

When learning about the Law of Attraction, you find that there are many things that you have to consider and apply in your life. You have to be willing to go inside yourself and change some basic patterns that you have been using; many of them you didn’t even know existed within yourself. Here are some thoughts you’ll want to consider when applying the Law of Attraction.

1.)Everything in your life started from a thought and a feeling

And that thought and feeling came from you. Everything is a reflection of what you have been thinking and feeling. It’s hard to believe, isn’t it? It’s hard to grasp that people and situations that you really didn’t want in your life came into being from you. So instead of balking and pushing against this thought, think back to every situation that you have had that has been less than happy. Think about what led up to that point. Were you focusing on some negative thoughts? Were you getting involved in fear feelings? And lo and behold, the situation came crashing into your sphere? This can be changed just by focusing on what you do want in your life, and not on what you don’t want in your life. At the same time, think of a time when what you wanted to happen did? What were your feelings and thoughts that led up to that moment? You will find that everything really came from you. The great thing is that you can change your life; you and you alone can do it with the help of the Universe.

2.)Finding gratefulness in everything you do

I know this sounds a bit Pollyanna but it is the truth when applying the Law of Attraction. It’s easy to be grateful when you get everything that you want but it’s not that easy to be grateful when the opposite occurs. With the Law of Attraction it’s important to find things to be grateful for all day long, even something as mundane as cleaning out the cat's litter box. Being grateful ranks right up there with feeling love and these two emotions can change your life by remaining in that positive state as often as possible. So what do you do? Find what is grateful in every situation, even cleaning the litter box. Focus your gratitude on the loving cat that you clean up after, it’s really that simple. This goes for everything: situations, people, and anything else you can think of. Anyone can be grateful for happy things. It takes a great LOA practitioner to be grateful in a ‘less than grateful’ situation.

3.)Don’t get involved in the extremes

How many times have you had someone call or pull you aside at work and tell you all the problems of the world? You get wrapped up in what they are saying and it stays on your mind all day long. When you go home, you tell your spouse all about it and call your mother and do the same. This is called getting involved in the extremes. Someone else tells you something and you build upon it and you get involved in thoughts and feelings that do not help you in the least. Walk the middle road. When someone comes to you with problems there is nothing wrong with listening and helping out if that is what you want to do, but make sure to stay out of the extremes and walk the middle of the road. Don’t veer over to the sides of the road that represent the extremes. Getting involved emotionally can wreak havoc with your own personal being. We all know that getting personally involved with your thoughts and feelings will only bring you more to be concerned about. Take the road of the Tao. Observe what is around you and help with what you can, but keep your emotions in check and walk the road of least resistance.

4.)Focus on what matters to you

Applying the Law of Attraction is about focusing on what we want in our lives and not focusing on what we don’t want. We find many of us can’t help but think of ‘what could’ happen, usually conjuring up a negative scenario in the process. Focus on what you want in your life. Focus on the joy that you have and are going to have. Focus on this incredible world wherein we are able to create whatever we desire. Focus on the joy certain people bring to you. Focus that your rent is paid this month.

Don’t focus on "if" your rent be paid next month. Don’t focus on the faults of the people in your life. Don’t focus on how bad this world is and how it is crumbling apart. Don’t focus on the lack of joy in your life. Don’t focus on what you don’t want to be a part of your life. There is a big difference in what you put your attention to. Don’t let a few bad moments in the day ruin your focus. The less attention you put toward those moments, the fewer and farther between they will become. The more attention you put toward the good things in your life, the more you will have of those kinds of moments.

5.)Be aware of opportunities

How many times have you felt you missed an opportunity of some sort? Most likely the ‘missed’ opportunity is squelched either by fear or by just not being aware it was even there. When you miss an opportunity remember that the Universe will bring another your way if you want it to. The key phrase is if you want it to. When there is a missed opportunity how you react to it is what will bring you another opportunity or another missed opportunity. If you ask the Universe for another one, it will come but if you wallow in the fact that you missed the first one, then the Universe will attract similar events right back to you. Being aware is imperative within the Law of Attraction. When you focus and visualize on the life you desire and then become oblivious to the signs that the Universe is giving you to take action, it will take more time to receive your desires. Be ready and aware when the Universe gives you a sign to act upon and brings your desire right to you.

The Law of Attraction takes practice. And like anything, with practice you improve until one day you will find that your life has become exactly what you focused on, desired, and wanted it to be.

By: Beth McCain

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Beth and Lee McCain are full time instructors and lecturers in applying the Law of Attraction, or better known as the Secret, in your life to attain whatever you desire. They have a great radio show on Youtube that is both entertaining as well as informative on the subject of the Law of Attraction. Beth and Lee are real people with real answers. For more information, please visit: Beth and Lee McCain Law of Attraction Web Site

Monday, December 17, 2007

Using Law Of Attraction Counters Negativity

Hello Friends,

Hope all is well. Negativity is all around us. We cannot control the minds of others so we are constantly bombarded with other peoples problems. No matter how hard you try, you will have to deal with a negative situation at some point in the day.

The important thing is how we react when faced with a negative situation. It has been said that "...it is not what happens to us, but how we react that really matters."

Embrace negativity as a chance to learn. When you observe negative attitudes, you are learning how not to be. Negativity leads to more negativity. Your health can be affected if you constantly place yourself in these hurtful situations. Learn how to distance yourself from it. You don't have to run away, but you can add distance between you and negativity simply through your mind. Turn every negative into a positive.

This article gives us some great ideas on how to deal with negativity. Be sure to implement some of the examples given. Start by doing something nice for someone. That always turns the day in a more positive direction. Enjoy the article and thanks for listening.

Living The Law Of Attraction In A Negative World

You had every intention of having an incredible day. The alarm went off fifteen minutes early, just like you planned, so that you could have a few minutes to visualize your perfect day. You took a nice hot shower and you even told the water how grateful you were that you had water. It's going to be a great Law of Attraction, happy, happy, joy, joy day.

You heard the quiet drone of the television in your room and the loud remarks coming from your spouse profusely telling the television off. No mind. Your day is going to be just like you envisioned. Your spouse, on the other hand, will just have the day he creates. You decided you won't be a part of the negative vibe.

You went downstairs and made breakfast. You put out three bowls with cereal on the table and three bottles of water. You shouted up the stairs, "Breakfast, come and get it!" Your child came barreling down the stairs and plopped in front of her bowl. "Mom, I wanted the cereal with chocolate chunks in it," she blurted. You told her you will pick some up when this cereal is gone, still knowing that you are going to have a great day; but it feels like it started a little weird.

How do you get by living with the negative thoughts and feelings that can fly around the house…not to mention work, especially when you are doing your best to create a wonderful world for you and your family? (And without their help.) Sure, they're not going to believe their luck when all the money rolls in and life is perfect. Are they going to thank you for all your positive thoughts and feelings that go toward making it happen? If they'd be a little more positive and stop complaining maybe things would get easier. Sheeze!

Now you feel your day is shot. You had woken up in such a wonderful space and already the cynical remarks of the outside world have created a quiver of negative arrows aimed straight for you.

How do you apply the Law of Attraction in a world that is full of cynics and negative remarks? How can you get beyond the feelings of the negative when it feels like everyone around is negative. Even when the remarks are not intentional, they can still rub your nerves raw.

Let's start with this: You have the power to dismiss all of the negative around you. I know it sounds easier said than done but you can. The people around you, even if you have told them over and over again, are creating their days with cynical or negative remarks. They only become a part of your world when you let them. When you react, whether inwardly or outwardly, you are attracting this situation to yourself again and again.

How do you keep from reacting to the negative? By allowing. Let the people around you create their negative cloud and just observe it. Don't take part in it. If you are directly asked a negative question, take that time to answer in a way that is not going to upset you, but will keep you allowing the other person to create what they must.

If you are egged into an argument, you really do have the choice not to participate. It is only an argument when two people participate. There is no argument when there is only one speaking. Yes, the other person may feel like he 'won' the fight or that he is 'right' because you haven't responded, but here is the trick: When you are being egged on, just observe, don't participate. There is a big difference between giving someone the 'silent treatment' and just being observant. The 'silent treatment' usually means you are madder than a hornet and are punishing the other person. Being observant is not giving in to the part of you that wants to be right and just letting the wave of anger pass beyond you. Then maybe later when there is no 'egging' the subject of the conversation can be calmly revisited.

Let's face it. We are responsible for every day that we have. Our todays create our tomorrows. Our pasts made up our todays. Some part of you created the negative that stopped in for the day and you can change that by allowing and living with ease around all of the negative that you may have attracted. When you allow, and live in ease, you will find that the negative will lessen and there will be more positive coming into your life.

Try it. Next time you have a day that seems to be steered by others' negative remarks just allow and 'let go' of the feeling that builds up inside of you. Continue your day with ease through the Law of Attraction, and your days will become negative free.

By: Beth McCain

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Beth and Lee McCain are full time instructors and lecturers in applying the Law of Attraction, or better known as the Secret, in your life to attain whatever you desire. They have a great radio show on Youtube that is both entertaining as well as informative on the subject of the Law of Attraction. Beth and Lee are real people with real answers. For more information, please visit: Beth and Lee McCain Law of Attraction Web Site