Hello Friends,
Hope all is well. Here's a great story about Jane and how she changed her thoughts to attract positive people into her life. Law Of Attraction states that "like attracts like". So if you are a negative person, you will attract negative people and situations into your life. The good thing is that you can reverse the situation with a simple mind shift.
Start be grateful for the things you already have. It will be impossible for you to be negative when you are in constant "thanking" mode. If you are saying "thank you", you can't in the same thought or breath also say "this situation stinks." You can't do it.
There are only two real emotions. One good and one bad. As humans, we can only hold one emotion at a time. Let your emotions be filled with positive vibrations. Positive forces are very strong and you will begin to attract more of the same.
Enjoy this short story. Remember that your next thought determines your future. Let it be a positive one. Many blessings!
At Last! How To Stop Attracting Negative People In To Your Life Using The Law Of Attraction
The further on you read you will begin to understand how to stop attracting negative people in to your life. Imagine how joyful, fun and happy your life would be?
Jane’s life was like the same song playing over and over again every day. “I can't get no satisfaction,
I can't get no satisfaction.
'Cause I try and I try and I try and I try.
I can't get no, I can't get no……
She kept thinking about all of the negative people in her life. The more she gave it attention, energy and focus she attracted more and more negative people around her. They were at work, at the gym and most of all at home. Jane felt unsatisfied with her life and the people in it.
Imagine experiencing this on a daily basis?
This Law of Attraction thing sure was working for her. You probably already know that it was working in a ways she didn’t want
Jane needed to make a shift in her thinking and focus on the kinds of people that she did want in her life. She had to really want to stop attracting all of those negative people. She wanted new kinds of people to show up and so she set a different kind of energy in motion.
Lo and behold when her vibration changed and her results changed too. At Last! The Law of Attraction was matching that new vibration and things started changing.
She started attracting new kinds of people who were at a higher vibration just like she was. She was attracting people who were a vibrational match just like her. In other words their vibration was a high as hers and they were a vibrational match.
How did she know that they were a vibrational match?
She could tell by how she was feeling. She felt great around these new people that she was attracting. In the past, she felt pulled down or less energetic around negative people. She could feel that these new people were in vibrational harmony and it felt really, really good.
Jane even started to attract people around her who had a vibration higher than hers. What happens when you meet people like this she wondered? Perhaps you will feel uplifted? Or you may feel some resistance being around them? This may have you not feeling so good. This meant that Jane may have some resistance around them. So what could she do to get around this?
She has come so far and wants to only be around positive and uplifting people.
She needed a tool to use to help her in these situations. So she asked herself “What do I want?” Sometimes she still would run into her old friends and they would go on and on about how much they hated their job, their boss, or their husband. Jane would then ask her friends “what do they want?” and “how could this be different for you”. All of a sudden a wonderful thing started to happen. That person’s energy started to change and their vibration changed and now they were becoming more of a match with Jane.
Jane learned that she could set her vibration and sometimes she needed to protect that vibration around certain people. She wanted to maintain her high vibration around people and now had a tool to use to maintain her high vibration in any situation.
Imagine what it would be life if you made these changes in your life. Wouldn’t it be amazing to make a difference in your life and have it the way you want it? It really can be done. Now I would like to help you experience the same thing.
By: Beverly Boston
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Copyright © 2008 Beverly Boston. All Rights Reserved. If you like this article, and want to learn more about how I help women ages 50-55 also known as “prime time” women who are struggling because they continually seem to be attracting the wrong kinds of relationships visit www.beverlyboston.wordpress.com. I help women attract ideal relationships, friends, opportunities plus much, much more. This is just really the beginning!
Saturday, March 15, 2008
Thursday, March 13, 2008
Celebrate Change Using The Law Of Attraction
Hello Friends,
Hope all is well. Change is always hard for as humans. We are creatures of habit. We get into our daily routines and we stick to them. It can be very hard to break old habits.
Change can be good. Even when it is unexpected. Change brings about growth. If you are asking the Universe for something, the Universe begins to put those things into order. What happens sometimes is that we are not ready for the way the Universe is going to grant us our desires.
Many times we get an idea of how we want things and situations to come to us, but the Universe knows the quickest and most beneficial way towards our desires. Don't fight the Universe. Let the situation take its natural course. You asked for it. Just be faithful and it will come to you in the way that is best for you.
Many blessings as you create the existence you desire.
Major Change And The Law Of Attraction
You're visualizing that perfect job every night and just know that the Universe is bringing you exactly what you desire. You also know that the job you are currently working at right now is not what you want. But you have to work there until the Universe brings you the job you dream of, right? Then, when you go into work the next day you learn you've been laid off. Most people would be upset over losing a job, but when you're a Law of Attraction practitioner you know what this means. The Universe has something better for you coming around the corner.
It can sometimes be hard to be joyous when a major change that seems so difficult happens out of the blue. Not everyone is comfortable with change, but in order for you to obtain what you desire, change is necessary, and major change is something to celebrate.
When major change arrives it means the Universe is aligning you with your desire. You have to break a few eggs in order to make an omelet, and the same goes for a major life-changing desire. If you want your visualization to come into physical being, be prepared for major change, and once you have figured out how to practice the Law of Attraction intentionally, things will attract faster to you.
Sometimes the Universe has to align many different components in order for your desire to come into being, and aligning at that magnitude requires change on your part.
Welcome any kind of change because it means there is a shift and when the shift comes, just accept that your desire is right around the corner. The Universe is lining up the planets for you so you can have what you want out of life. Welcome the change. Rejoice in it. In fact, whenever you have a day of any kind of change, toast the day because you are on the right path to the new life you have been envisioning.
Can your desire come to you without a massive shift in your life? Of course it can, and this happens time and time again. But sometimes it takes movement to obtain your desires. It can happen both ways but just remember that when you have major change and you have been faithful in giving the Universe an exact image of what you want, celebrate that seemingly difficult change. Such change is a product of what you have been thinking, feeling, and focusing on, and the Universe is doing its job just for you. So here's a toast to major change and the Law of Attraction.
By: Beth McCain
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Beth and Lee McCain are full time instructors and lecturers in applying the Law of Attraction, or better known as the Secret, in your life to attain whatever you desire. They have a great radio show on Youtube that is both entertaining as well as informative on the subject of the Law of Attraction. Beth and Lee are real people with real answers. For more information, please visit: Beth and Lee McCain Law of Attraction Web Site
Hope all is well. Change is always hard for as humans. We are creatures of habit. We get into our daily routines and we stick to them. It can be very hard to break old habits.
Change can be good. Even when it is unexpected. Change brings about growth. If you are asking the Universe for something, the Universe begins to put those things into order. What happens sometimes is that we are not ready for the way the Universe is going to grant us our desires.
Many times we get an idea of how we want things and situations to come to us, but the Universe knows the quickest and most beneficial way towards our desires. Don't fight the Universe. Let the situation take its natural course. You asked for it. Just be faithful and it will come to you in the way that is best for you.
Many blessings as you create the existence you desire.
Major Change And The Law Of Attraction
You're visualizing that perfect job every night and just know that the Universe is bringing you exactly what you desire. You also know that the job you are currently working at right now is not what you want. But you have to work there until the Universe brings you the job you dream of, right? Then, when you go into work the next day you learn you've been laid off. Most people would be upset over losing a job, but when you're a Law of Attraction practitioner you know what this means. The Universe has something better for you coming around the corner.
It can sometimes be hard to be joyous when a major change that seems so difficult happens out of the blue. Not everyone is comfortable with change, but in order for you to obtain what you desire, change is necessary, and major change is something to celebrate.
When major change arrives it means the Universe is aligning you with your desire. You have to break a few eggs in order to make an omelet, and the same goes for a major life-changing desire. If you want your visualization to come into physical being, be prepared for major change, and once you have figured out how to practice the Law of Attraction intentionally, things will attract faster to you.
Sometimes the Universe has to align many different components in order for your desire to come into being, and aligning at that magnitude requires change on your part.
Welcome any kind of change because it means there is a shift and when the shift comes, just accept that your desire is right around the corner. The Universe is lining up the planets for you so you can have what you want out of life. Welcome the change. Rejoice in it. In fact, whenever you have a day of any kind of change, toast the day because you are on the right path to the new life you have been envisioning.
Can your desire come to you without a massive shift in your life? Of course it can, and this happens time and time again. But sometimes it takes movement to obtain your desires. It can happen both ways but just remember that when you have major change and you have been faithful in giving the Universe an exact image of what you want, celebrate that seemingly difficult change. Such change is a product of what you have been thinking, feeling, and focusing on, and the Universe is doing its job just for you. So here's a toast to major change and the Law of Attraction.
By: Beth McCain
Article Directory: http://www.articledashboard.com Article Dashboard
Beth and Lee McCain are full time instructors and lecturers in applying the Law of Attraction, or better known as the Secret, in your life to attain whatever you desire. They have a great radio show on Youtube that is both entertaining as well as informative on the subject of the Law of Attraction. Beth and Lee are real people with real answers. For more information, please visit: Beth and Lee McCain Law of Attraction Web Site
Monday, March 10, 2008
Mind Power- What You Need To Know
Hello Friends,
Hope all is well. Everyone want to have a powerful mind. One that creates what we want at will. It is possible to have a mind this great, but when it comes down to it we end up being our own worst enemy. As soon as we have a good idea, instead of nurturing the idea, we think of all the things that could go wrong. This is Law of Attraction in work, but for the negative.
Focus on what you do want rather than what you don't want. The Universe is responding to our true thoughts and emotions. Send out only positive vibrations and that is what you will receive in return.
This article does a good job of giving you 7 points to remember as you are in the creation stage. Heed them well and the desires of your life will start to take form. Many blessings and thanks for listening.
7 Things You Should Know About Mind Power
Every since the natural Law of Attraction was popularized to the masses through the phenomenal success of The Secret movie, just about every one is trying out his or her own version of mind power and mental manifestation.
However, there are a few basic things we need to know before we even begin.
1. You are a divine being
Modern man is so preoccupied with the need to eke out a living that he is only aware of and is focused on his physical existence and needs. He is largely unconscious of his other existence - the formless and limitless mind.
In order to master your mind power, you need to be fully aware of this aspect of your existence, and realize that this is the power to your creation. This is the aspect that directly links you to your spirituality.
Begin each day remembering this divine nature of yours and you will begin to cultivate a new habit of purposeful creation.
2. Your mind is the creator of your experience
You are the creator of your own life and a co-creator of the universe you live in. Whatever you experience in your life - good and bad - is a mirror reflection of the inner state of your mind.
"As within, so without" is not just a nice saying. It is the actual description of how the universe works. When your mind is filled with garbage - negative thoughts and emotions, constant judging and blaming, resentments and irritations - it attracts precisely the same into your life. Likewise, when you have predominantly positive thoughts - unconditional love, compassion, gratitude, joy and blamelessness - then you attract into your life a happy and joyful experience.
3. You are fully responsible for your creations
Since you are the creator of your own life through your thoughts, you are 100% responsible for your own creations. If you are experiencing a life you do not like right now, it is all the result of your past thoughts. Therefore, you cannot blame your parents, your siblings, your spouse, your children, your unfortunate circumstances and any other kind of excuses for your conditions.
The idea is that you begin to accept full responsibility for your life and drop the habit of judging and blaming others. Only when you have done that will you be able to fully master your own destiny. Otherwise, you will only continue to look for someone or something to blame for your misfortunes.
4. You are creating all the time, whether you are aware of it or not
After watching The Secret movie, many people think that now they can begin to create a life that they want, as if all these times they have not been creating it. Know that you are creating every moment with your thoughts. You are doing it now even as you are reading this article. Creation is a moment to moment process and the only point of creation is NOW.
The point is we are not learning to create only now. We have been creating all the time. The difference now is that we want to create consciously. We want to be fully aware of what we create.
To do so, we need to be fully aware of what thoughts we allow in our mind. We want to be able to have only good positive thoughts and throw away the bad negative thoughts. We want to be fully conscious of what we are creating and therefore attracting into our lives.
5. To create consciously, you must master your mind
This is probably the most difficult challenge for most people. We are in the habit of living our lives without giving much thought to what goes in and out of our mind. We have been living on default or autopilot. It has become a mental habit that is hard to break.
To create our life consciously, we need to change this mental habit. We must have absolute mastery over our mind. We consciously determine what goes in and out of our mind, and choose only positive thoughts while discarding the negative ones.
This requires mental training or mind mastery. This is very much like an athlete who trains his body to perform as he wishes. With mind training, we want to train our mind to perform as we wish.
6. The key to mind mastery is mindfulness
Mindfulness or self awareness is the mental tool we need to master our mind. We need to sharpen this mindfulness and raise it to a new and higher level of awareness - a level that allows us to be fully aware of when our thoughts just begin to arise, what they are and to consciously change the negative thoughts as they arise and replace them with positive thoughts.
This simple objective is by no means easy to accomplish. It requires constant effort to be mindful. Only with persistence and discipline can this be achieved.
Mind training is easy to understand but not easy to do. That is why it is said that even an 8 year old may understand it but even an 80 year old may not be able to practice it.
7. Not everyone is ready for mind training
While it is true that a good teacher can find the right approach to teach any student, not every one who wants to learn mind training is ready for it. Those who are mentally unstable would not be suitable for it. It is certainly not for the mentally ill.
Sometimes certain new methodology such as brainwave entrainment is used as an adjunct to mind training. This may not be suitable for those with epilepsy or a history of fits.
So, before you begin your mind training, do your homework and learn as much as you can about it. There are tons of books on mind power. Some classic books on this new thought movement that I strongly recommend you read are those written by authors such as Wallace D. Wattles, Thomas Troward, James Allen, Annie Besant, Ernest Holmes and many more. They are well written, easy to understand and provide a good solid foundation to the understanding of how our mind and the universe work.
Once you have fully understood the principles, you can begin your own mind training.
By: Dr. Tim Ong
Article Directory: http://www.articledashboard.com
Dr. Tim Ong is a medical doctor who runs his own thriving medical practice. In his free time, he enjoys giving public talks, teaching meditation and offering his service to hospice work in the community. He also has keen interest in self improvement, mind science and spirituality. Dr. Ong is the webmaster of Kayaria, MindScience101 and TheSelfImprovementSite
Hope all is well. Everyone want to have a powerful mind. One that creates what we want at will. It is possible to have a mind this great, but when it comes down to it we end up being our own worst enemy. As soon as we have a good idea, instead of nurturing the idea, we think of all the things that could go wrong. This is Law of Attraction in work, but for the negative.
Focus on what you do want rather than what you don't want. The Universe is responding to our true thoughts and emotions. Send out only positive vibrations and that is what you will receive in return.
This article does a good job of giving you 7 points to remember as you are in the creation stage. Heed them well and the desires of your life will start to take form. Many blessings and thanks for listening.
7 Things You Should Know About Mind Power
Every since the natural Law of Attraction was popularized to the masses through the phenomenal success of The Secret movie, just about every one is trying out his or her own version of mind power and mental manifestation.
However, there are a few basic things we need to know before we even begin.
1. You are a divine being
Modern man is so preoccupied with the need to eke out a living that he is only aware of and is focused on his physical existence and needs. He is largely unconscious of his other existence - the formless and limitless mind.
In order to master your mind power, you need to be fully aware of this aspect of your existence, and realize that this is the power to your creation. This is the aspect that directly links you to your spirituality.
Begin each day remembering this divine nature of yours and you will begin to cultivate a new habit of purposeful creation.
2. Your mind is the creator of your experience
You are the creator of your own life and a co-creator of the universe you live in. Whatever you experience in your life - good and bad - is a mirror reflection of the inner state of your mind.
"As within, so without" is not just a nice saying. It is the actual description of how the universe works. When your mind is filled with garbage - negative thoughts and emotions, constant judging and blaming, resentments and irritations - it attracts precisely the same into your life. Likewise, when you have predominantly positive thoughts - unconditional love, compassion, gratitude, joy and blamelessness - then you attract into your life a happy and joyful experience.
3. You are fully responsible for your creations
Since you are the creator of your own life through your thoughts, you are 100% responsible for your own creations. If you are experiencing a life you do not like right now, it is all the result of your past thoughts. Therefore, you cannot blame your parents, your siblings, your spouse, your children, your unfortunate circumstances and any other kind of excuses for your conditions.
The idea is that you begin to accept full responsibility for your life and drop the habit of judging and blaming others. Only when you have done that will you be able to fully master your own destiny. Otherwise, you will only continue to look for someone or something to blame for your misfortunes.
4. You are creating all the time, whether you are aware of it or not
After watching The Secret movie, many people think that now they can begin to create a life that they want, as if all these times they have not been creating it. Know that you are creating every moment with your thoughts. You are doing it now even as you are reading this article. Creation is a moment to moment process and the only point of creation is NOW.
The point is we are not learning to create only now. We have been creating all the time. The difference now is that we want to create consciously. We want to be fully aware of what we create.
To do so, we need to be fully aware of what thoughts we allow in our mind. We want to be able to have only good positive thoughts and throw away the bad negative thoughts. We want to be fully conscious of what we are creating and therefore attracting into our lives.
5. To create consciously, you must master your mind
This is probably the most difficult challenge for most people. We are in the habit of living our lives without giving much thought to what goes in and out of our mind. We have been living on default or autopilot. It has become a mental habit that is hard to break.
To create our life consciously, we need to change this mental habit. We must have absolute mastery over our mind. We consciously determine what goes in and out of our mind, and choose only positive thoughts while discarding the negative ones.
This requires mental training or mind mastery. This is very much like an athlete who trains his body to perform as he wishes. With mind training, we want to train our mind to perform as we wish.
6. The key to mind mastery is mindfulness
Mindfulness or self awareness is the mental tool we need to master our mind. We need to sharpen this mindfulness and raise it to a new and higher level of awareness - a level that allows us to be fully aware of when our thoughts just begin to arise, what they are and to consciously change the negative thoughts as they arise and replace them with positive thoughts.
This simple objective is by no means easy to accomplish. It requires constant effort to be mindful. Only with persistence and discipline can this be achieved.
Mind training is easy to understand but not easy to do. That is why it is said that even an 8 year old may understand it but even an 80 year old may not be able to practice it.
7. Not everyone is ready for mind training
While it is true that a good teacher can find the right approach to teach any student, not every one who wants to learn mind training is ready for it. Those who are mentally unstable would not be suitable for it. It is certainly not for the mentally ill.
Sometimes certain new methodology such as brainwave entrainment is used as an adjunct to mind training. This may not be suitable for those with epilepsy or a history of fits.
So, before you begin your mind training, do your homework and learn as much as you can about it. There are tons of books on mind power. Some classic books on this new thought movement that I strongly recommend you read are those written by authors such as Wallace D. Wattles, Thomas Troward, James Allen, Annie Besant, Ernest Holmes and many more. They are well written, easy to understand and provide a good solid foundation to the understanding of how our mind and the universe work.
Once you have fully understood the principles, you can begin your own mind training.
By: Dr. Tim Ong
Article Directory: http://www.articledashboard.com
Dr. Tim Ong is a medical doctor who runs his own thriving medical practice. In his free time, he enjoys giving public talks, teaching meditation and offering his service to hospice work in the community. He also has keen interest in self improvement, mind science and spirituality. Dr. Ong is the webmaster of Kayaria, MindScience101 and TheSelfImprovementSite
Sunday, March 9, 2008
Let Go Of Negativity
Hello Friends,
Hope all is well. When we hold onto negative situations, we are really living in the past. Which is to say not living in the Now. Holding onto old feelings of hurt dooms you having this same hurtful situation over and over again. If you constantly think about the negative you will attract more of the same.
Find the real reason you are upset. Is it the situation or is it really you? You are the only one can control your emotions. Don't let anyone or any situation dictate how you feel today. Decide to feel good. It's just that simple. Do away with all the little things that throw your day for a loop. Recognize negativity as soon as it presents itself and squash it immediately.
Have a great day focusing on the positive things in your life. There are really only two emotions: Good and Bad. The good thing is that we can only hold one emotion at a time. Let your emotions be filled with goodness and love and goodness and love will be your reality.
Many blessings and enjoy the article.
Releasing Negative Situations With The Law Of Attraction
We got a call from our 23-year old daughter the other day that got me to thinking about getting to the root of a problem, and then letting it go.
She was upset that a guy she was interested in was playing an immature "trying to make her jealous" game. Not only did it not make her jealous, it actually made her mad. She said that at work the next day, all she could think about was how upset she was about the incident and so she called us to find out how to let go of the situation. This is what we told her.
When you have a situation that upsets you, first examine the real reason you're upset. Remember, when you are upset it always comes back to you and your thoughts and feelings. The root of the problem is usually right there within you and it may take some searching, but you can find it.
With our daughter, she said she couldn't think of why it upset her and that is what upset her the most. I asked her if maybe it was because the guy she thought he was, turned out to be not what she wanted. She said that wasn’t a big deal; that she knew there were other fish in the sea. So I told her let's go a little deeper.
Was she upset with the fact that he actually made her jealous, or was she upset with the fact that maybe he had figured how to upset her? She went silent, and that's when I knew we hit on the root of the problem. You see, she is a hard one to figure out, and compounding the matter is that she usually can figure the guy out way before he can remotely think of figuring her out. This particular guy had figured her out first, and it upset her that someone she barely knew could press her buttons that quickly. She felt unprotected and insecure. There was her problem. Now it was time to find the solution.
She realized why she was upset: She felt vulnerable and someone took advantage of that feeling. Now was the time to let the situation go.
So, she was vulnerable. Big Deal. We told her not to put up her defensive walls, but instead to work through the fact that she can be vulnerable and that is totally okay. This was about her, not about the guy. He was a long forgotten part of the equation. Once she figured out that it was about feeling insecure, she no longer felt insecure. By figuring out what the root of the problem was, it didn't seem scary any longer. She was able to shine light on the problem.
Her solution: Realizing that there are many fish in the sea and that the qualities that this particular guy did have, can be found in another guy who doesn't come with the need to make girls feel insecure. In actuality he was the one feeling insecure and he was creating his world, and she merely became a part of it. But only for a little while. Once she figured out that she didn't want to be a part of the world that he was creating, she became empowered and felt more secure than ever.
Finding the source of the upset and letting the situation go is a freeing experience. You no longer become attached to the situation or put energy toward it, and by letting it go you are no longer a slave to the negative feelings and thoughts that were connected to the circumstance. In other words, you won't be attracting more of the same. Let go and see how the Law of Attraction takes care of you.
By: Beth McCain
Article Directory: http://www.articledashboard.com Article Dashboard
Beth and Lee McCain are full time instructors and lecturers in applying the Law of Attraction, or better known as the Secret, in your life to attain whatever you desire. They have a great radio show on Youtube that is both entertaining as well as informative on the subject of the Law of Attraction. Beth and Lee are real people with real answers. For more information, please visit: Beth and Lee McCain Law of Attraction Web Site
Hope all is well. When we hold onto negative situations, we are really living in the past. Which is to say not living in the Now. Holding onto old feelings of hurt dooms you having this same hurtful situation over and over again. If you constantly think about the negative you will attract more of the same.
Find the real reason you are upset. Is it the situation or is it really you? You are the only one can control your emotions. Don't let anyone or any situation dictate how you feel today. Decide to feel good. It's just that simple. Do away with all the little things that throw your day for a loop. Recognize negativity as soon as it presents itself and squash it immediately.
Have a great day focusing on the positive things in your life. There are really only two emotions: Good and Bad. The good thing is that we can only hold one emotion at a time. Let your emotions be filled with goodness and love and goodness and love will be your reality.
Many blessings and enjoy the article.
Releasing Negative Situations With The Law Of Attraction
We got a call from our 23-year old daughter the other day that got me to thinking about getting to the root of a problem, and then letting it go.
She was upset that a guy she was interested in was playing an immature "trying to make her jealous" game. Not only did it not make her jealous, it actually made her mad. She said that at work the next day, all she could think about was how upset she was about the incident and so she called us to find out how to let go of the situation. This is what we told her.
When you have a situation that upsets you, first examine the real reason you're upset. Remember, when you are upset it always comes back to you and your thoughts and feelings. The root of the problem is usually right there within you and it may take some searching, but you can find it.
With our daughter, she said she couldn't think of why it upset her and that is what upset her the most. I asked her if maybe it was because the guy she thought he was, turned out to be not what she wanted. She said that wasn’t a big deal; that she knew there were other fish in the sea. So I told her let's go a little deeper.
Was she upset with the fact that he actually made her jealous, or was she upset with the fact that maybe he had figured how to upset her? She went silent, and that's when I knew we hit on the root of the problem. You see, she is a hard one to figure out, and compounding the matter is that she usually can figure the guy out way before he can remotely think of figuring her out. This particular guy had figured her out first, and it upset her that someone she barely knew could press her buttons that quickly. She felt unprotected and insecure. There was her problem. Now it was time to find the solution.
She realized why she was upset: She felt vulnerable and someone took advantage of that feeling. Now was the time to let the situation go.
So, she was vulnerable. Big Deal. We told her not to put up her defensive walls, but instead to work through the fact that she can be vulnerable and that is totally okay. This was about her, not about the guy. He was a long forgotten part of the equation. Once she figured out that it was about feeling insecure, she no longer felt insecure. By figuring out what the root of the problem was, it didn't seem scary any longer. She was able to shine light on the problem.
Her solution: Realizing that there are many fish in the sea and that the qualities that this particular guy did have, can be found in another guy who doesn't come with the need to make girls feel insecure. In actuality he was the one feeling insecure and he was creating his world, and she merely became a part of it. But only for a little while. Once she figured out that she didn't want to be a part of the world that he was creating, she became empowered and felt more secure than ever.
Finding the source of the upset and letting the situation go is a freeing experience. You no longer become attached to the situation or put energy toward it, and by letting it go you are no longer a slave to the negative feelings and thoughts that were connected to the circumstance. In other words, you won't be attracting more of the same. Let go and see how the Law of Attraction takes care of you.
By: Beth McCain
Article Directory: http://www.articledashboard.com Article Dashboard
Beth and Lee McCain are full time instructors and lecturers in applying the Law of Attraction, or better known as the Secret, in your life to attain whatever you desire. They have a great radio show on Youtube that is both entertaining as well as informative on the subject of the Law of Attraction. Beth and Lee are real people with real answers. For more information, please visit: Beth and Lee McCain Law of Attraction Web Site
Wednesday, March 5, 2008
Control...Another Form Of Limitation
Hello friends,
Hope all is well. Why put limits on the Universe? The Universe is on our side. The Universe wants us to succeed. The Universe wants us to be happy. So why do we resist what the Universe wants for us?
Control. Our ego has to be in control. By being controlling we set specific rules for how we want to get things done. The Universe always knows the most direct and positive way towards our dreams. We have to be still and listen for "that way." And when "the way" is presented to you, it our job to act on it. Your way may be different from my way, but when it comes from the Universe it is no longer your way or my way, but just simply a way to the truth.
Enjoy this article. Don't put limits on yourself or the Universe. Be present in the moment and your dreams will begin to unfold. Many blessings!
Living Unlimited In The Law Of Attraction
With the Law of Attraction we discuss how important it is to think and feel in an unlimited manner, knowing that the Universe is unlimited in every way. By thinking and feeling in this unlimited way, we will receive unlimited returns in the form of unlimited happiness, unlimited finances, unlimited love, unlimited health; the list goes on and on. But there is one subject that you want to be aware of when it comes to feeling and thinking in the unlimited way, and that would be control.
Control, as well as lackful thinking, is very limiting. When you think lack, you are thinking of what you don't have. You are focusing on what you don't want and lackful thought is very limited. Lack only brings more lack.
But did you know that being controlling can also start the Universe on the negative path of just bringing you more things to control? And being controlling is just another form of limitation. When you try to wrangle control over a situation, you are only limiting it.
The first step to attracting the unlimited is to just observe and allow. Observing and allowing, by the way, are far different from tolerating. Tolerating means that you don't like someone's thoughts or behaviors but elect to let them be. Observing and allowing means that you see or hear another's behaviors or thoughts and you accept them for who they are, no matter what. This doesn't mean that you are condoning behavior you don't approve of; it just means that you have decided not to become a part of their creation.
By allowing, you continue to create your own world. The less energy you put toward them, the less they will be a part of your creation. This can be difficult at times but realize that when you are seeing another's behavior and thoughts and you keep talking about how they are, you are focusing on the bad behavior. And when you focus on something negative, you are in effect trying to control. By repeatedly focusing on another's life and thinking about how 'wrong' they are you are in fact controlling (creating) this focus into being. And just because something is right for you does not mean it is right for another.
We say it time and time again. Let go of situations if they bother you. Let go of people and their behaviors if they bother you. The less focus you put on their problems, the better your life will be. Letting go is a form of feeling unlimited.
Have you ever had a problem and you weren't sure how to work it out? And you just get to a point where you throw all the cards in the air and just say, "Forget it, I've had it. That's it!" and you decide to just let the cards fall where they may. You'll no doubt notice there is an overwhelming feeling of peace; of 'letting go'.
Do this with every situation or person who is causing the 'control' feeling and let go. See your circumstance healed through the Law of Attraction and it will be. By letting go, you are releasing limited feelings and thoughts. And by releasing those limited thoughts, you open many doors to the unlimited happiness in your life through the Law of Attraction.
By: Beth McCain
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Beth and Lee McCain are full time instructors and lecturers in applying the Law of Attraction, or better known as the Secret, in your life to attain whatever you desire. They have a great radio show on Youtube that is both entertaining as well as informative on the subject of the Law of Attraction. Beth and Lee are real people with real answers. For more information, please visit: Beth and Lee McCain Law of Attraction Web Site
Hope all is well. Why put limits on the Universe? The Universe is on our side. The Universe wants us to succeed. The Universe wants us to be happy. So why do we resist what the Universe wants for us?
Control. Our ego has to be in control. By being controlling we set specific rules for how we want to get things done. The Universe always knows the most direct and positive way towards our dreams. We have to be still and listen for "that way." And when "the way" is presented to you, it our job to act on it. Your way may be different from my way, but when it comes from the Universe it is no longer your way or my way, but just simply a way to the truth.
Enjoy this article. Don't put limits on yourself or the Universe. Be present in the moment and your dreams will begin to unfold. Many blessings!
Living Unlimited In The Law Of Attraction
With the Law of Attraction we discuss how important it is to think and feel in an unlimited manner, knowing that the Universe is unlimited in every way. By thinking and feeling in this unlimited way, we will receive unlimited returns in the form of unlimited happiness, unlimited finances, unlimited love, unlimited health; the list goes on and on. But there is one subject that you want to be aware of when it comes to feeling and thinking in the unlimited way, and that would be control.
Control, as well as lackful thinking, is very limiting. When you think lack, you are thinking of what you don't have. You are focusing on what you don't want and lackful thought is very limited. Lack only brings more lack.
But did you know that being controlling can also start the Universe on the negative path of just bringing you more things to control? And being controlling is just another form of limitation. When you try to wrangle control over a situation, you are only limiting it.
The first step to attracting the unlimited is to just observe and allow. Observing and allowing, by the way, are far different from tolerating. Tolerating means that you don't like someone's thoughts or behaviors but elect to let them be. Observing and allowing means that you see or hear another's behaviors or thoughts and you accept them for who they are, no matter what. This doesn't mean that you are condoning behavior you don't approve of; it just means that you have decided not to become a part of their creation.
By allowing, you continue to create your own world. The less energy you put toward them, the less they will be a part of your creation. This can be difficult at times but realize that when you are seeing another's behavior and thoughts and you keep talking about how they are, you are focusing on the bad behavior. And when you focus on something negative, you are in effect trying to control. By repeatedly focusing on another's life and thinking about how 'wrong' they are you are in fact controlling (creating) this focus into being. And just because something is right for you does not mean it is right for another.
We say it time and time again. Let go of situations if they bother you. Let go of people and their behaviors if they bother you. The less focus you put on their problems, the better your life will be. Letting go is a form of feeling unlimited.
Have you ever had a problem and you weren't sure how to work it out? And you just get to a point where you throw all the cards in the air and just say, "Forget it, I've had it. That's it!" and you decide to just let the cards fall where they may. You'll no doubt notice there is an overwhelming feeling of peace; of 'letting go'.
Do this with every situation or person who is causing the 'control' feeling and let go. See your circumstance healed through the Law of Attraction and it will be. By letting go, you are releasing limited feelings and thoughts. And by releasing those limited thoughts, you open many doors to the unlimited happiness in your life through the Law of Attraction.
By: Beth McCain
Article Directory: http://www.articledashboard.com Article Dashboard
Beth and Lee McCain are full time instructors and lecturers in applying the Law of Attraction, or better known as the Secret, in your life to attain whatever you desire. They have a great radio show on Youtube that is both entertaining as well as informative on the subject of the Law of Attraction. Beth and Lee are real people with real answers. For more information, please visit: Beth and Lee McCain Law of Attraction Web Site
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