Tuesday, May 13, 2008

Can I Change Someone Using The Law Of Attraction?

Hello Friends,

Hope all is well. "We must become the change we want to see in the world"(Gandhi). Can we change people into what they want them to be? This is a question that comes up a lot when individuals are practicing the Law Of Attraction.

Gandhi urges us to be the change that we want to see in our world. The following article agrees with this position. Don't change the person. Change how you view the person. This leads to a change that will be beneficial for you and the person who may be causing an uncomfortable situation.

Start applying this advice immediately in your life. Soon your surroundings will be more in alignment with what you are truly wanting in life. Have a great day applying this principle and thanks for listening. Blessings!

Changing Someone Else With The Law Of Attraction

The Law of Attraction can help you to attain everything that you desire through emotion, thoughts, and focus. If you can attain anything, is it possible to change another person through your ability to apply the Law of Attraction intentionally?

You can change another person through your own perceptions while applying the Law of Attraction. For example, if you are having problems with a co-worker who is rude and represents all your good ideas as his, you'll likely decide that you just want to change him so that work will be enjoyable.

First thing that you want to remember is that every person who crosses your path is a reflection of your own thoughts. This co-worker came into your life because the Universe aligned your thoughts, emotions, and focus of what you have been concentrating on, whether it is a present thought or a past thought. You don't have to find the exact moment or know why this physical manifestation of the coworker came about; just realize that something has to change within you so that you don't repeat this kind of manifestation.

Visualizing that this person is nice and easy to get along won't solve the problem. You are trying to change another person and unless you have a magic wand that changes personalities just for your benefit, you'll have to take a different approach. Instead of changing this person, change your perception of this person and then visualize it.

Let's take this a step further.

When you go into the visualization mode of what you want, don’t concentrate on the problem of the co-worker, concentrate on the perfect solution that you would like to have. Concentrate on solving the problem. Visualize that you are at work and you are getting along with your co-worker. You work on projects together, you enjoy each other's company, and you see this all in the now.

Focus on the good that can come out of you and the co-worker working together. When you head to work the next day, don't react to any of the co-worker's sneaky antics. Keep the image you have, focusing on your solution. When you react and get upset (on the outside or inside), you are putting attention and focus to the 'don’t want.' If you can't get the image of the solution while the incident is happening then just stay in a middle area of emotion. Don’t expel any energy and feed your fire; that will cause the Universe to bring you the same through the Law of Attraction.

One of two things will happen, either the co-worker will begin to see the error of his ways and make a complete turnaround, and even possibly become a good friend. OR he may leave the picture completely. Your co-worker has to be aligning at the same rate of vibration as you. Everyone in your world that you have created does just that. If he is supposed to remain in your creation, he will change. But if he can't vibrate at your level, he will leave your world. When you focus on a clear solution and know that it is going to happen, and don't put any energy toward the negative co-worker situation, the Universe will bring you what you are focusing on no matter what. It’s the Law of Attraction and it doesn't play favorites; it's a continual law of the Universe. Focus and concentrate in the now with the feeling of wonderment and joy and you will receive just that.

Whatever you are changing through the Law of Attraction will come exactly as you envisioned… or better. The Universe knows exactly what will work. Focus on the joy of mutual kindness and cooperation with any person or circumstance and you will be successful in changing your perception of another through the Law of Attraction.

By: Beth McCain

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Beth and Lee McCain are full time instructors and lecturers in applying the Law of Attraction, or better known as the Secret, in your life to attain whatever you desire. They have a great radio show on Youtube that is both entertaining as well as informative on the subject of the Law of Attraction. Beth and Lee are real people with real answers. For more information, please visit: Beth and Lee McCain Law of Attraction Web Site

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