Wednesday, May 20, 2009

The Dos And Don'ts Of Law Of Attraction

Hello Friends,

Hope all is well. This article goes along with one of my favorite quotes.

Focus on what you do want rather than what you don't want.

So where is your focus? Are you focused on all the negativity that is in your life? If you are, then you will get more of the same. Start to focus on what you truly want from this existence. Start to use the words and feel the feelings that will put the Universe in motion for your favor.

Beth McCain gives us some good advice on how and why we should make it our primary objective to focus on what we really want. Enjoy this short but powerful article. It will shed a little light if you have been stumbling around in the dark as you reach for your goals. Thanks for listening, and Always Feel Good. Blessings!

For Every 'don't There Is A 'do' In The Law Of Attraction

You know what you don't want but do you know what you do want? Isn't it funny how when you ask a group of people where they want to go to eat they can immediately tell you where they don't want to go, but finding the answer to where to go seems to take forever. It's great to know what you don't want and that is half the battle. Finding what you do want can be a bit tricky.

When applying the Law of Attraction it's important to find what it is that you want. That is where you want to put your focus on. Are you saying, "I don't want this in my life" or are you saying "I do want this in my life"? Wherever you place your focus is what is going to come to you. If you place your focus on the don't want you are saying that you don't want this to come about and the feelings attached to the don't are usually the emotions of struggle and lack. Some can't understand why, when they say what they don't want, it comes to them.

Let's look at an example: You have an argument with a family member and you feel bad about it. You say to a friend of yours, "I don't want to fight. It makes me so upset." Do you see where this is headed? Can you feel the sadness in the don't want? This is going to bring you more of the same with the Law of Attraction. Maybe not through the same family member but in a vibration that matches your don't want. If you don't want to argue with your family member you could instead take the way of 'hope'. "I do want a solution to our argument." This feeling of determination shows the Universe what it is that you want and that is what will come to you. A solution of what you want.

So are you saying yes or no to what you focus on? Are you focusing on the yes of the want or the no of the don't want? Just a few changes of thought and feelings will put you in the direction that is needed to accomplish a positively driven path. Are you focusing on the do wants of your life? Are you seeing the hope in what it is that you want? Can you see the unlimited possibilities to your life? You don't have to know exactly what they are yet but just know they are there. The Universe will take care of how those unlimited possibilities will come to you via the Law of Attraction.

You have the ability to change your life just with your thoughts and feelings. If you are feeling down you know that this is the direction you don't want to go in. The don't want direction. Shift to a little bit better feeling and begin to say what you do want. Make this shift over and over again until it becomes a new positive habit and that new positive habit will become a way of life.

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Monday, May 11, 2009

Acting As If(Fake It, Til You Make It)

Hello Friends,

Hope all is well. We all have wants and desires. It's only natural. If we didn't have goals and dreams, our existence in this experience would be meaningless. In the previous post we talked about relieving the frustrations that surface when trying to manifest our dreams.

So why do we sometimes fall short of what we are wanting? It mainly stems from living in a state of lack. We tend to focus on what we don't have. We may want the new car, but we focus on all the repairs that need to be done on the one we already own. When we focus on all the repairs, the Universe gives us more of what we're focused on. More parts that need repairing.

We all heard the phrase, "Fake it, til you make it". It sometimes get a negative rap, but nothing could be truer when you are in the process of manifesting your desires. I have a lofty goal of playing on the Champions Golf Tour. To be on the Champions Tour you have to be 50 so I have some time to practice. When I practice and I hit a good shot, I look around and wave to the crowd. I tip my cap even though nobody is there.

The reason I do this is that I am practicing for the future. I am imagining the life I want for myself in the future. I am visualizing myself hitting a great shot and then acknowledging the crowds reaction. Faking it, til I make it. As I continue to do this routine and practice, I have faith that it will happen for real someday.

The following is a great article that discusses acting as if it has already happened. Take some of these ideas with you as you go through your week. begin to act out the life that you really want. Soon it will become your reality. Thanks for listening, and Always Feel Good!

You Must Act As If

Everywhere I go I'm getting people asking me, "How do I hold the right state of mind to manifest, to create, to demonstrate the results that I want?" And bravo! I couldn't put the question better. That's how you want to ask it.

Here's where the challenge comes in. A lot of times—we all understand this—when people want more, they may be coming from a place of lack.

That may or may not be your circumstance—we're talking in the abstract—but when a person is coming from the place of lack, it really is very difficult to have the state of acceptance and gratitude that you need to have. Because you put yourself there and you receive—you be what you want to receive.

You need to have faith—believe that you have received, and you will. "Okay," people ask, "how do I believe that I have received?" The unspoken part of the question is, "…when I obviously haven't?"

Well, there are a lot of different ways to say it, and some of these you've heard. You've got to act as if you have received. Act as if you do have the capacity to deliver on the prospect or the concept, or on the contract that you're negotiating. You've got to pretend to intend.

Pretend to intend, or when you intend, you pretend. Either way you do it, it's Catch-22, fake it 'til you make it.

You put yourself in that position where you will perform, and then it doesn't matter that you were faking it—as in you've never, for instance, done a real estate transaction or done a deal this way, or spoken at a public event. Whatever it is, you put yourself in a position where you will do it.

You've got to think right to get it right. You've got to see it first, you've got to live it first, you've got to be prepared, you've got to know what it is first to receive it. That's the reason why we place so much importance on making your goals and your visualizations and your affirmations present tense—so you get into it and dig in like it's real.

Because your subconscious only knows the present tense—what it feels is real. It's going to accept that as the dominating command to create that life.

If you are taking time every single day to intend—remember, pretend to intend, meditation, create the active in this thing, be a causative force. Pretend to intend. Sit with what you are in the future, feel the feelings, move with the motions, do what it takes, live the life, feel the ecstasy.

Enjoy it, because the subconscious is always going to give you more of whatever is in your mind. If you don't change your thought habits, you're going to continue to get what you've always gotten. You've got to change if you haven't received what you want yet.

And this is what I wish for you. Play with this. It's not a simple concept, it's not an easy concept, but you must act as if.

By: James Leer

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Wednesday, May 6, 2009

6 Basic Steps To Relieve Frustration With Law Of Attraction

Hello Friends,

Hope all is well. Frustration can set in when first attempting to use the Law of Attraction. We may feel like we're doing and saying all the right things. And still no results.

The real question we should be asking ourselves is, what am I feeling? What are the emotions that are surrounding this situation right now? We may be going through the actions but we may not be feeling good about it.

In the following article, Andrea Sholer gives us some great exercises to get over the feelings of frustration. If you begin to follow these 6 steps you will see a dramatic change in your life. Suddenly life will become possible again. And the impossible will be no more.

Get started today. Make it a point to implement these steps into your life. Life is supposed to be good. So go out there and make it good. Many blessings, and thanks for listening.

Law Of Attraction And Manifestation - 6 Basic Steps For Daily Life

The basics of Law of Attraction and manifestation are simple... But, still, it ALWAYS needs practice (especially in frustrating situations), and, it's actually even MORE important to use it for the little things in life!

...While we may seek to consciously use Law of Attraction and manifestation practices to attract a soul mate, get more money, sculpt our bodies, or fix some big problem in our lives, the REAL WORLD effects of Law of Attraction are most active in ALL the little things:

* Driving to work, frustrated because of the traffic and that jerk who cut you off
* Going to a social event if you won't know many people
* Presenting a routine progress update at a business meeting
* Having a spat with your spouse or your kids
* The 5 errands that need to be done on your 45-minute lunch hour

...That is when having these basic Law of Attraction skills REALLY matters!

1. STOP - Interrupt the chaos and emotion of the moment
Find a way to STOP, or, as they say in the Abraham Law of Attraction workshops, to "let go of the oars"; mentally stop, then re-focus your thoughts.

2. BREATHE - Take a consciously deep breath
Taking a deep breath is like a "cosmic refresh" button... While you are doing it, declare that you want to feel good!

3. ASK - Decide what you DO WANT to be experiencing right now
Focus your attention onto what you DO WANT to have happen in the situation. If thoughts of what you're upset about keep coming up, try to figure out what the "opposite" might be. Even saying that you want to feel good is a good start!

4. ALIGN - Mentally list 3-5 reasons WHY you would LIKE the new experience better
Identifying WHY you want any new experience adds clarity, depth and positive emotional energy to an intention; it starts to align your desires with the feel good vibration of believing it IS possible!

5. ATTRACT - Think of a new scenario for the current situation that would be REALLY NICE if it worked out that way
Take a moment to dream a little, and imagine a NEW version of the current situation, but with it ALL working out really well for you... Notice how much better you feel (even momentarily) when you imagine it the way you DO want it to be!

6. ALLOW - Begin to release resistance by shifting your focus onto OTHER subjects that ARE working (even a little bit) in your life right now...
The REAL key to Law of Attraction and manifestation is in letting go of attention to "what is" - doing your best to NOT give attention to the problem and focus only on what IS working in your life. ...Make it your only goal to find things to appreciate that are in your life NOW!

SPECIAL NOTE: If these "How To Law of Attraction and Manifestation" practices are not working for you, there are other subconscious forces at work - most likely resistance, competing intentions, or lack of belief in oneself... Practices that can help:

* Identify where you may be inadvertently focusing on what you DON'T want instead of what you DO want
* Clarify your competing intentions by identifying some of "side-effects" that COULD accompany your dream
* Do self-appreciation exercises
* Find more ways to simply feel good and have more fun
* Think of new ways to believe your dreams ARE possible

By: Andrea Sholer

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Monday, May 4, 2009

Using Your Imagination To Rediscover Abundance

Hello Friends,

Hope all is well. Abundance is all around us. It's hard to recognize it if we are constantly focused on all that is wrong with our lives. Everyone has problems. Everyone experiences difficulties. Challenges are inevitable in our existence.

The key to getting what you want in your life is living it right now. You may not have what you want yet but you can certainly pretend like you have it already. Begin to use your imagination again. It is a powerful thing. Imagination is what starts the process of thoughts becoming reality.

In the following article, Beth McCain gives us insight into simple exercises we can all do to help our desires materialize. As you become consistent with these exercises the results in your life will become more consistent and even predictable. Become the creator of your own existence. Life will be so much more enjoyable and exciting if you do. Have a great day, and thanks for listening.

How To Feel Abundance When It's Not Here Yet

How many times have you said to yourself, "Today is the day that all my dreams come true" and then the day passes. You see little progress in the Law of Attraction in your life. You are intentionally watching each thought and living in the now. After a while, those feelings of the day passing and the feeling of nothing happening causes you to doubt or even worry as each day passes.

How can you break the cycle?

First of all remember that just because you can't see it doesn't mean that the Universe has forgotten about you. You are in a constant state of movement as you decide what you want and don't want. You are always moving forward even when you don't feel as if you are. You are always experiencing and learning in this lifetime. Even when you are waiting you are experiencing waiting and learning that maybe it is not what you want. We are all about contrast and there is a contrast to everything. We compare people and events in our lives all the time. It is part of why we are here; to experience this world and all it has to offer.

Step out of your box. The box that says what you think is going to happen and use some tools that you have long forgotten that may be of some use to breaking through the lack of abundance. When we're talking abundance, we mean money but also your relationship, health, career, and anything else you can think of that you would like an abundance of.

Remember when you were a child and you would imagine that there were characters in your life that didn't exist? You'd dress up the cat and pretend she was a ballerina? Or you took out your plastic army men and made a whole world that was your own? Do you remember the feeling of play and how real it felt to you at the time?

If you don't remember just watch a child play for a while and you will get the picture.

Now you want to tap into that feeling once again and live what you want in your life for a few minutes. Draw a picture, cut out pictures, make a list, or whatever will work for you of the life that you want and use your childlike wonder to feel what it is like to live the life you desire.
Every time you do this exercise sends vibrations out to the Universe of joy and accomplishment of what you want now and the more that you can get into that feeling it will become a repetitive habit of the mind and BINGO…it will be yours.

See abundance in your everyday life. See it as if it is the air you breathe. Abundance is in all things that are available to you. Use that child mind and breathe in. When you breathe in, breathe in abundance in your mind. You can do this exercise anywhere. No one will even know. Take a deep breath and feel abundance.

Next, look for abundance. You don't have to specifically look for it in the area that you want it, just find it in your everyday life; in the trees, the sky, laughter, love, even material things. See that there truly is no lack of abundance in anything. When you can see that and can realize that you deserve it and that it is for you, abundance will come to you.

What is the best way to bring abundance into your life? Be thankful for what you have already in your life. Be appreciative of where you are today as you focus on what you want tomorrow. These feelings of thankfulness will bring you more than you could ever imagine through the Law of Attraction.

By: Beth McCain

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